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Re: [share] Pencapaian/penghargaan para2 Bhikuni/Bhiksuni, dll
« Reply #15 on: 17 June 2011, 09:44:57 AM »
Nothing is Impossible, because IMPOSSIBLE itself says, I’M POSSIBLE.  ;)

sis M14ka bisa2 nya lho.... :)) :))

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« Reply #16 on: 17 June 2011, 10:50:27 AM »
Nothing is Impossible, because IMPOSSIBLE itself says, I’M POSSIBLE.

Apakah "hidup kekal selamanya" itu bukan impossible??

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« Reply #17 on: 17 June 2011, 10:59:48 AM »
Apakah "hidup kekal selamanya" itu bukan impossible??

setuju bro....hidup tidak kekal.... khan ketika masih kecil masih dunia mimpi, setelah gede akhirnya SADAR bahwa cita2 saya itu mustahil...

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« Reply #18 on: 17 June 2011, 11:11:29 AM »
setuju bro....hidup tidak kekal.... khan ketika masih kecil masih dunia mimpi, setelah gede akhirnya SADAR bahwa cita2 saya itu mustahil...

So, "impossible is nothing" was bull****. :P

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« Reply #19 on: 17 June 2011, 11:21:41 AM »
So, "impossible is nothing" was bull****. :P

upss....for me impossible when im realize it as it is. i have to realistic.  ;D ;D

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« Reply #20 on: 17 June 2011, 11:37:44 AM »
Apakah "hidup kekal selamanya" itu bukan impossible??

So, "impossible is nothing" was bull****. :P

Who knows? Maybe thousand years from now on that would be possible.  ;D

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« Reply #21 on: 17 June 2011, 11:40:47 AM »
Who knows? Maybe thousand years from now on that would be possible.  ;D


so ?

it is CLEARLY, u mentioned dear, thousand years from now...u see? its means in this very life it is impossible.... :P

thats why at above i told it is impossible for me.  ;D
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« Reply #22 on: 17 June 2011, 11:45:36 AM »
so ?

it is CLEARLY, u mentioned dear, thousand years from now...u see? its means in this very life it is impossible.... :P

thats why at above i told it is impossible for me.  ;D

Actually, what I mean is just dont give up and say its impossible...
A deaf could play a violin? No body knows....

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« Reply #23 on: 17 June 2011, 11:49:48 AM »
Who knows? Maybe thousand years from now on that would be possible.  ;D

Those who live would be die. If no "starting point" there will be no "ending point". The fact is: Birth is starting point of live. So, it would be has the ending point then. ;D

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« Reply #24 on: 17 June 2011, 11:52:05 AM »
Actually, what I mean is just dont give up and say its impossible...
A deaf could play a violin? No body knows....

thanks dear, but im not that one of kind. :( :( ....really so sorry dear, i know myself, i know my weakness, i know my problem as well. so, i have to realistic. for me better to living in realistic otherwise will living on the day-dream. :P
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« Reply #25 on: 17 June 2011, 11:55:28 AM »
Those who live would be die. If no "starting point" there will be no "ending point". The fact is: Birth is starting point of live. So, it would be has the ending point then. ;D

its mean i already started and then i will ended...thanks bro.... :P

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« Reply #26 on: 17 June 2011, 12:45:09 PM »
its mean i already started and then i will ended...thanks bro.... :P

You got the point!

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« Reply #27 on: 17 June 2011, 02:01:03 PM »
Those who live would be die. If no "starting point" there will be no "ending point". The fact is: Birth is starting point of live. So, it would be has the ending point then. ;D

Okay, it is realistic things I must admit it. But how about some achievement things that we didn't know for sure, but we just say it impossible... Its not realistic but a bit pessimistic, in my opinion...  I just want to give some encourages. Difficult maybe, but not impossible.... just dont give up n u will reach ur dream.... (not weird dream like I want to live forever) ;)

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« Reply #28 on: 17 June 2011, 02:29:01 PM »
Okay, it is realistic things I must admit it. But how about some achievement things that we didn't know for sure, but we just say it impossible... Its not realistic but a bit pessimistic, in my opinion...  I just want to give some encourages. Difficult maybe, but not impossible.... just dont give up n u will reach ur dream.... (not weird dream like I want to live forever) ;)

It depends on each case, we can not always give some encourages to all people who seems pessimistic. For reference, I will quote a survey result from Joanne Wood and her partners about positive thinking.

“In brief, Wood suggested that people with low self-esteem are harmed by self-affirmation because they just don’t believe themselves to be lovable persons. Open declarative statements often trigger automatic counter-arguing. Someone who is overly self-critical and who says to herself “I am a lovable person,” might spontaneously sneer at her clumsy attempt at self-indoctrination. As a result, self-esteem goes down even further. Instead of pulling the person’s self-concept up, the positive self-statement now highlights the difference between the actual and the ideal self.”

Be realistic is very simple. Just stop thinking about positive or negative things, and just do it as you can. ;)

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« Reply #29 on: 17 June 2011, 02:36:23 PM »
It depends on each case, we can not always give some encourages to all people who seems pessimistic. For reference, I will quote a survey result from Joanne Wood and her partners about positive thinking.

“In brief, Wood suggested that people with low self-esteem are harmed by self-affirmation because they just don’t believe themselves to be lovable persons. Open declarative statements often trigger automatic counter-arguing. Someone who is overly self-critical and who says to herself “I am a lovable person,” might spontaneously sneer at her clumsy attempt at self-indoctrination. As a result, self-esteem goes down even further. Instead of pulling the person’s self-concept up, the positive self-statement now highlights the difference between the actual and the ideal self.”

Be realistic is very simple. Just stop thinking about positive or negative things, and just do it as you can. ;)

Okay...Thanks for sharing  ;D