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Started by Rina Hong, 17 February 2009, 09:44:31 AM

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Rina Hong

Of course... if i appreciate one or more of the DC mates, i'm going to give them the choco... sure for it...
The four Reliances
1st,rely on the spirit and meaning of the teachings, not on the words;
2nd,rely on the teachings, not on the personality of the teacher;
3rd,rely on real wisdom, not superficial interpretation;
And 4th,rely on the essence of your pure Wisdom Mind, not on judgmental perceptions

HokBen

Quote from: Rina Hong on 18 February 2009, 10:54:49 AM
could be when we appreciate someone so much, not always to our boy/girl friend but could be to our teacher, our best friend, workmates or maybe schoolmates...

yeah... forum-mate ....
so.. where i should send my address? PM or email?

Rina Hong

:)) stay calm... 14 March i'll be in jakarta
The four Reliances
1st,rely on the spirit and meaning of the teachings, not on the words;
2nd,rely on the teachings, not on the personality of the teacher;
3rd,rely on real wisdom, not superficial interpretation;
And 4th,rely on the essence of your pure Wisdom Mind, not on judgmental perceptions

hatRed

i'm just a mammal with troubled soul



vathena

a best friend..do you have a best friend?a real best friend I mean.In my whole life I never have a real best friend,they all just kind with me for a while en after that they show the real of them.I was sa sad,I always want a best friend en I always do my best to someone in hope that she can be my real best friend.After this two years ago,finally I got a best friend.I think that I have found it,but it was wrong.Recently,she started to talk about en praise her new best friend as though I'm not a good friend.And her act is really annoying when my score is better than her.And I feel,in her eyes,I'm not her best friend anymore...I'm so sad..She is the one who I shared my secret with,she is the one who I care.I really confuse why she could be like that.Is there anyway that I can do..
Keep the torch of Dhamma alight! Let it shine brightly in your daily life. Always remember, Dhamma is not an escape. It is an art of living , living in peace and harmony with oneself and also with all others. Hence, try to live a Dhamma life.

Nevada

Of course, that is one of 10 girl's dilemmas. Girls (espesially : attractive girls), are don't have any real friend. Girls just have some alliances...

hatRed

stop looking for best friend, coz there is no better friend or best friend...if u hopes ur friend to be the better or the best... u'r just wasting time
i'm just a mammal with troubled soul



vathena

 [at] bro upasaka
why attractive girl don't have any real friend?
but I think I'm not attractive :D
so what should I do to have a real friend?

but that's true,boys or men have more friends(real) than girls
Keep the torch of Dhamma alight! Let it shine brightly in your daily life. Always remember, Dhamma is not an escape. It is an art of living , living in peace and harmony with oneself and also with all others. Hence, try to live a Dhamma life.

vathena

Quote from: hatRed on 24 March 2009, 02:28:15 PM
stop looking for best friend, coz there is no better friend or best friend...if u hopes ur friend to be the better or the best... u'r just wasting time

I don't wish to have a perfect friend,I just wish to have a friend who didn't betray me :(
Keep the torch of Dhamma alight! Let it shine brightly in your daily life. Always remember, Dhamma is not an escape. It is an art of living , living in peace and harmony with oneself and also with all others. Hence, try to live a Dhamma life.

Nevada

Quote from: vathena on 24 March 2009, 02:34:44 PM
[at] bro upasaka
why attractive girl don't have any real friend?
but I think I'm not attractive :D
so what should I do to have a real friend?

but that's true,boys or men have more friends(real) than girls

Poor girls... You just have a little little little chance to get the real friend...

Girls just looking for a partner, not a friend...


hatRed

don't know much with girlzz.....

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Girls just looking for a partner, not a friend...

is it really really true :-?
i'm just a mammal with troubled soul



Nevada

Quote from: hatRed on 24 March 2009, 02:45:36 PM
don't know much with girlzz.....

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Girls just looking for a partner, not a friend...

is it really really true :-?

That's the hidden fact, guys...

hatRed

Thizz "partner" means husband right?

what a cheap life.... ::)
i'm just a mammal with troubled soul



vathena

Quote from: upasaka on 24 March 2009, 02:43:27 PM
Quote from: vathena on 24 March 2009, 02:34:44 PM
[at] bro upasaka
why attractive girl don't have any real friend?
but I think I'm not attractive :D
so what should I do to have a real friend?

but that's true,boys or men have more friends(real) than girls

Poor girls... You just have a little little little chance to get the real friend...

Girls just looking for a partner, not a friend...



why I have a little3x chance to have a friend?please tell me,so I can fix it.

but I think beside partner we should have a best friend.that's my needed.
Keep the torch of Dhamma alight! Let it shine brightly in your daily life. Always remember, Dhamma is not an escape. It is an art of living , living in peace and harmony with oneself and also with all others. Hence, try to live a Dhamma life.

Nevada

#74
Quote from: hatRed on 24 March 2009, 02:49:53 PM
Thizz "partner" means husband right?

what a cheap life.... ::)
nope...

partner is the other girls...
girls are  growing up by hand in hand with the others. but, the communities are full of competitor...