Truthful

[El Sol]

5 precept, especially the 4th precept

We often mixed Sila in (sila samadhi panna) with Sila in (Pancasila, which is only known in Indonesia). So confusing lar

wait a minute...I kinda recognize your slang..the word "lar" is either used by Malaysian or Singaporean...did you stay in Malaysia or Singapore before? I mean..for a long time...^^

[Sumedho]

aiyoh, that's the way we speak lar. if you mixed hokkien with english, there - you got singlish
doesn't matter whether i ever stay there or not 

[Hendra Susanto]

ohh really?? i thought "lah" in the end for singlish

[Sumedho]

actually it's more to "lar" than "lah". "lah" has more weight at the 'h' and while singaporean don't pronounce 'r' so clearly, 'lar' is the better one
CMIIW

[Hendra Susanto]

oh i see...

singaporean don't pronounce...

if i'm not mistaken u should use "doesn't"

[Sumedho]

thanks bro.

or the "singaporean" should be changed to "singaporeans"

[Hendra Susanto]

yes.. correct man..

[Hendra Susanto]

let's practice our english.. another opinion please..

[Forte]

confused mode on..
Let's coffee break in this morning to reduce it.. 

[Hendra Susanto]

 

[El Sol]

oh i see...

singaporean don't pronounce...

if i'm not mistaken u should use "doesn't"

aiyah...our Admin got Phd in Singlish mahhh...RUN FOR MY LIFE!!

[yulistina]

speaking about regret, do you regret the truthful that your confess to other is unacceptable by them??

There would be no regret to reveal the truth, as long as that truth is NECESSARY to be spoken, with no intention to hurt anyone. Should it be painful to someone, she/he would better face it, therefore she/he could manage some action to deal with it. White lie seems to be right at the first place, but it can draw back somebody to the worse situation.

[Hendra Susanto]

speaking about regret, do you regret the truthful that your confess to other is unacceptable by them??

There would be no regret to reveal the truth, as long as that truth is NECESSARY to be spoken, with no intention to hurt anyone. Should it be painful to someone, she/he would better face it, therefore she/he could manage some action to deal with it. White lie seems to be right at the first place, but it can draw back somebody to the worse situation.

ohhh really nice posting...
need more lecture from you Guru

[Hendra Susanto]

White lie seems to be right at the first place, but it can draw back somebody to the worse situation.

about white lie, do you think our mother did that when we're children even now could so??

[Sumedho]

of course they did. (our parents)
I try not to do that too now.

I have memories back then where my parents were telling white lies and i know and still remember they were lies. They stop when I ignore those lies