If one is jealous, selfish or dishonest they are unattractive despite their eloquence
and good features. But the person who is purged of such things and is free from
hatred, it is he or she who is really beautiful. Dp.262-3
It is impossible that a person who is not themselves restrained, disciplined or
satisfied could restrain, discipline or satisfy others. But it is very possible that one
who has restrained, disciplined and satisfied themselves could help others become
like that. M.I,45
Contentment is the greatest wealth. Dp.204
If others criticize me, the Dhamma or the Sangha you should not get angry or
resentful because that would cloud your judgment and you would not know whether
what they said was right and wrong. If others do this explain to them how their
criticism is incorrect, saying, ‘This is not correct. That is not right. This is not our way.
That is not what we do.’ Likewise, if others praise me or the Dhamma or the Sangha
you should not get proud or puffed up because that would cloud your judgment and
you would not know whether what they said was right and wrong. So if others do this
explain to them how their praise is justified, saying, ‘This is correct. That is right. This
is our way. That is found in us.’ D.I,3
If words have five marks they are not ill-spoken but well-spoken, laudable and
praised by the wise. What five? They are spoken at the right time, they are true, they
are spoken with gentleness, they are to the point and they are spoken with love.
A.III,243
Just as a deep lake is clear and still, even so the wise become utterly peaceful when
they hear the teachings. Dp.82
Of little importance is the loss of such things as wealth but it is a terrible thing to
loose wisdom. Of little importance is the gaining of such things as wealth but it is a
wonderful thing to gain wisdom. A.I,15
If the heedless person recites the sacred text but does not apply what they say,
they are like a cowherd counting someone else’s cows, they will not enjoy the
benefits of the holy life. Dp.19
Just as a mother protects her only child even at the risk of her own life, so too, one
should have unbounded love to all beings in the world. Sn.150
One who wants to admonish another should first ponder like this; ‘Am I or am I not
one how practices complete purity in body and speech? Are these qualities present
in me or not?’ If they are not there will no doubt be those who say; ‘Come now, why
don’t you practice complete purity in body and speech first?’ Again, one who wants
to admonish another should first ponder like this; ‘Have I freed myself from ill will
and developed love towards others. It this quality present in me or not?’ If they are
not there will no doubt be those who say; ‘Come now, why don’t you practice love
yourself?’ A.V,79
Whoever practices righteousness in the morning, at noon or at night, they will have a
happy morning, a happy noon and a happy night. A.I,294
If anyone abuses you, hits you, throws stones at you or strikes you with a stick or a
sword, you must put aside all worldly desires and considerations and think, ‘My heart
will not be moved. I shall speak no evil words. I will feel no resentment but maintain
kindness and compassion for all beings.’ You should think like this. M.I,126
Irrigators lead the water, fletchers bend the shaft, carpenters shape the wood, the
wise mold themselves. Dp.80
There are four types of people found in the world. What four? Those concerned with
neither their own welfare or the welfare of others, those concerned with the welfare
of others but not their own, those concerned with their own welfare but not that of
others and those who are concerned with both their own welfare and the welfare of
others…Of there four types of people those who are concerned with there own
welfare and the welfare of others are the chief, the highest, the topmost and the
best.
A.II,94
If you take refuge in the Buddha, the Dhamma and the Sangha you will be free from
fear and trembling. S.I,220
Conquer hate with love, evil with good, meanness with generosity and lies with truth.
Dp.223
Those whose thoughts, speech and actions are good are their own best friend. Even
if they say, ‘We do not care about ourselves’ they are still their own best friend. And
why? Because they do for themselves what a friend would do for them. S.I,71
Do not think lightly of goodness saying, ‘I can not be like that.’ A drop at a time is
the water pot filled and likewise little by little do the wise fill themselves with good.
Dp.122